There is some good news for you. First, the unemployment rate finally dropped below 9 percent in November. Second, now that January is here, companies are in a new budget year and hiring is often stronger. I am going to operate under the positive assumption you will find work before your savings run out for the first part of my advice. You may not find a job at the salary you would like, but you will be employed and earning enough to pay your expenses until times get better. I also want you to have a good handle on how much you will need to earn to make ends meet. The reason is so you don't settle for a job that pays too little, or you may still have money problems going forward.
So, while you await an email from your next employer, I want you to conserve as much of your available cash as you can. Make only minimum payments on your credit cards (this particular situation is the only time you will hear this advice from me), and cut back on as many other expenses as possible. This is also one of the rare cases in which it's OK by me to use credit for living expenses like groceries. This will allow you to pay less each month and extend the cash you have. Yes, you'll have a bigger bill once this is over, but that is better than running out of cash.
Another thing you can do to extend your income is to get some more of it with outside dollars instead of using unemployment benefits or savings. If you can secure part-time employment, it can extend your unemployment benefits. For instance, if your unemployment benefits are $500 per week and you earned $200 per week working part time, you would only draw $300 of the $500 entitled benefits. You use the words "we" and "our" in your letter, so if you have a partner, you might consider having your partner seek extra employment as well.
If the worst happens and you wind up with your unemployment benefits as your sole source of income and no savings, you will need to prioritize your debts. It used to be mortgages always got paid first, but that's not always the case today if you have negative home equity. Decide which bills you can afford, and tell the rest they'll have to wait. You have to put your family first. If that means disappointing your creditors, then that's what you have to do. You won't be a bad person if you do.
Be sure to keep up on your car payment if you need your car for work. Repossessions can happen very quickly if you get behind.
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