You are attacking this problem from the wrong end. Saying you don't have the money for bankruptcy and pleading with a collector are nonstarters in my book. When a person is serious about getting something, they sometimes say they'll do it if they have to beg, borrow or steal. Well you already know that begging and borrowing won't work for you. That leaves stealing! Not someone else's money, but your own.
It's true a bankruptcy lawyer may not want to take your case unless you can give them their fee up front. After all, you are about to stiff others whom you promised to pay, so the lawyer has a valid concern about working with you without payment in advance. Here are three suggestions to getting around this problem.
- First, you can search for a pro bono attorney at probono.abiworld.org. You may be able to get legal help for free.
- Second, you may be able to file your case on your own if you do some research. It is called a pro se filing and happens all the time if your case isn't too complex.
- Third, you could take your next paycheck, pay no one and go directly to your attorney's office and file.
Once you have filed for bankruptcy, your wage garnishment will cease. Creditors included in the filing must stop all collection activity after a bankruptcy is filed, including garnishment proceedings. Your extra wages should help you catch up on your mortgage payments and assist in solving one of your financial troubles.
But to assure that this mess won't happen again, what you need is to determine the underlying causes of your debt, so you know and understand how you ended up in your current financial hardship. Even more importantly, you need to know how to prevent ending up there again. To do so, I recommend you gather all your financial statements, bills, etc., and take a comprehensive look at where you are and why it happened.
It may help to have an unbiased, expert opinion on your financial situation. You can enlist the help of a certified credit counselor for no charge. Contact a nonprofit member agency of the Association of Independent Consumer Credit Counseling Agencies or the National Foundation for Credit Counseling for assistance. You'll need to contact them anyway as a part of your bankruptcy filing (you must receive pre-filing counseling). Your counselor will review your income and expenses and help you piece together how you ended up with a wage garnishment and are now behind on your mortgage.
Moving forward, keep in mind what you learned from your exhaustive review of your finances, follow a spending plan that keeps your expenses below your income and save money in an emergency savings account. We all make mistakes in life. The goal is to learn from them and not repeat them.
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