Both options may sound equally bleak, but for the vast majority who pay for assisted living through their own means, coming up with a plan to finance the move will at least make it more feasible.
The national median monthly rate for a one-bedroom unit in an assisted living facility is $3,500, according to the 2014 Cost of Care Survey released in April by Genworth Financial Inc. of Richmond, Virginia. That's $42,000 per year, an increase of 1.45 percent over 2013. The cost has been rising by an average of 4.29 percent annually over the past five years.
Now consider this factoid from Kyllo: The typical assisted living resident has an income of about $19,000 per year. Obviously, most residents must tap additional resources to cover the cost, and the funds often come from the sale of their biggest asset: their homes.
A bridge loan can help until home is sold
"Assisted living is need-driven," says Kyllo. "It's not like (other) housing options that people weigh. They are going into assisted living because they need help with their daily lives. They need help with bathing, medication management, cooking and managing finances. While economies may have downturns and housing markets may slow down, one thing that doesn't slow down is the aging process."
Barbara Steinberg, founder and managing member of BLS Eldercare Financial Solutions in Livingston, New Jersey., often recommends a loan if a client's need for assisted living care is too urgent to wait until the house sells.
"We work with a company that does bridge loans for exactly that situation, where somebody is waiting to sell a house so they can move into assisted living," says Steinberg, who is a Registered Financial Gerontologist. "It's an interest-only loan that pays the assisted living facility until the house sells."