Raising children is expensive. This is especially true for some older people who, instead of winding down to a leisurely retirement, find themselves once again raising youngsters -- this time, their grandchildren. Financial and social programs can help, though many of them require some form of formal custody arrangement.
A number of government programs offer tax breaks, subsidies or even cash to those with dependents who are not their children, says Elaine King, vice president and director of Wealth & Well-Being Institute at Gibraltar Private Bank & Trust in Coral Gables, Fla. They include the following:
- Temporary Assistance for Needy Families. The benefits from this financial assistance program for low-income families, King says, may include cash and day care expenses, depending on the state and an applicant's situation. Even if a household's income is too high to qualify as a family, grandparents can apply for a child-only grant based on the child's income. This is a federal program administered by the state.
- Medicaid. Caregivers who are family members but not parents can apply in the child's name, says King. Qualifying criteria include the child's income and whether applicants have private health care insurance.
- Social Security Survivors Benefits. Children whose parents are deceased are often eligible for these.
- Supplemental Security Income. This benefit provides monthly benefits to the disabled, including disabled children.
- Earned income tax credit. Federal guidelines for working grandparents allow tax breaks if the taxpayer is caring full time for dependent children.
- Subsidized guardianship. Although not available everywhere, programs exist in some states to subsidize caretakers who are legal guardians.
The best way to find out what you're eligible for is to check with your local Social Security office, says King.
Custody optionsTaking advantage of these programs may require not only proof of kinship but also some sort of legal custody, says Marty Platt Jendrek, professor of sociology and gerontology at Miami University in Oxford, Ohio.
In fact, she says, without custody, or at the very least written authorization from a parent, there can be problems with such basic things as registering a youngster at school or taking a child to a doctor.
The options vary from state to state and depend on whether the child's parents are living, says Jendrek.
One possibility is court placement or foster care. In this scenario, the court appoints the grandparents as caretakers, but retains legal custody of the child.
"Some will go for custody instead of full adoption, with the notion that the parents can come in at some other time," says Jendrek. "Most grandparents go to great lengths to make sure that the parent is involved in the child's life."
Guardianship is an option that grants grandparents physical and legal custody, but it can be expensive and emotionally fraught because it involves proving the child's parents are unfit.
Outright adoption is permanent custody, and is most common when the parents are no longer living.