A single parent's guide to financial security
A single parent multitasks all
the time. Sometimes she's the chef, other times the taxi driver
or housekeeper, and always she's the breadwinner, family psychologist
and teacher. Managing a family, a household and holding down a job
keep her plenty challenged.
If you're winging parenthood on your own, you know
it's difficult to carve out time to pay the bills let alone do financial
Here are some suggestions for streamlining your financial
life and building up your net worth:
Establish a cash reserve
Everyone should have an emergency cash fund, but it's especially
crucial for a single parent. A good rule of thumb is an emergency
fund equal to three months of expenses, but your savings needs to
ultimately reflect your financial situation, advises Gayle Buff,
a certified financial planner in Newton, Mass.
If your job is secure and finances strong, then a
home equity line of credit or open credit on a credit card is sufficient.
Invest your extra cash more aggressively. However, if your job is
unstable and your finances tight, then you need to tighten your
belt and put away six months of living expenses.
The key to establishing
a cash reserve is to be consistent.
Take control of your finances
Healthy finances require that you pay attention to how you
spend your money.
"Managing cash flow is difficult," says
financial planner Mari Adam, of Adam Financials in Boca Raton, Fla.
"It can seem time consuming and overwhelming, but it's time
well spent. If you ignore your expenditures, money simply disappears."
Set up a spending plan. Write down your short-term
and long-term goals. Ask yourself how you can accomplish them. The
first step is to evaluate your spending habits. Track your spending
for three to four months, or look back over your checkbook and your
income for the same period. Do you have any discretionary funds?
Do you need to cut back your spending? Take the time to develop
a spending plan.
At this juncture in life, the top financial goals
should be to accumulate assets that will increase your net worth
and your retirement savings. Pay yourself first through payroll
savings plans and your 401(k).
Protect your family's future
Across the board, financial planners agree that single parents,
in particular, need disability insurance and life insurance as a
contingency plan to protect themselves and their children.
disability insurance covers your most valuable asset -- the
ability to earn an income. Yet, it's the most overlooked insurance,
explains Phil Behnen, certified financial planner with Polaris Financial
Strategies in St. Louis, Mo.
"Not only is it vital for your financial health,
but it's inexpensive," he says.
Check with your employer to see if you can pick up
this coverage at work.
Life insurance is particularly important for single
parents, especially if you are the sole supporter of your children.
Gayle Buff recommends purchasing term life insurance
over permanent, or cash value, life insurance. Permanent life insurance,
which combines insurance with an investment option, carries higher
premiums, and is often too expensive for the amount of insurance
you need, leaving you short-changed on coverage.
"The investment products are poor investing tools,"
Buff says. "You're better off buying term life insurance and
investing the savings on your own."
Estate and contingency plans are vital
Single parents should have a will to protect and provide for
their children in case something happens. Your will names your children's
guardians and controls your estate -- that is, everything you own
from your house, bank accounts, investments, insurance and personal
property to your retirement plans.
If you die without a will, the state becomes the executor.
Bankrate's Dollar Diva offers more details on setting
up a will.
Single parents should also have a living will and
a durable power of attorney. A living
will expresses your wishes if you become terminally ill or incapacitated,
and a durable power of attorney empowers someone you trust to carry
Invest for college early
The earlier you save for college, the more your money grows.
Mari Adam highly recommends the state-sponsored Section
529 college savings plans, which grow tax-free.
Most incomes can't heavily contribute to both retirement
planning and college savings, so Adam recommends investing small
amounts to both. Just get started.
"A common investing mistake is to invest too
much money under the child's name," says Phil Behnen. Parents
who open investment accounts for their child may find these earnings
produce a larger tax bill than expected, due to the
kiddie tax. Plus, parents who opt for custodial accounts need
to remember that their child can access this money when they turn
18 years old. They may or may not choose to spend it on its intended
Lastly, a large sum of money in the child's name can
hurt their chances for financial aid. This is one more reason to
consider Section 529 plans, Behnen says, because they're assets
of the owners, typically the parents, not the child.
Invest aggressively for retirement
"Don't invest too conservatively," says Behnen.
Concentrate your investments in growth-oriented investments.
Take advantage of your company's retirement program.
"The biggest mistake people make is they don't
participate in their company's pension plan, and then lose out on
the company's matching contribution," Behnen says.
He also recommends that you contribute to a Roth IRA.
Adults who learn to invest early, explains Behnen, don't get used
to having a higher income level to spend; they learn to live within
Pay yourself first! Financial planners agree that
the most reliable investment strategy is an automatic debit from
your paychecks into your investment accounts. A good rule of thumb,
says Adam, is saving 10 percent of your income, which includes your
Here's why you should diversify
your investments for a stronger portfolio.
Make your money go further
Take a look at your entire financial picture, and see if you
can restructure anything to make it work better for you, says Gayle
Consider your banking products: How much does the
checking account cost you? Can you put your cash reserves in a more
How about your credit cards: Can you get a lower rate?
Perhaps you'd do better to pay off high interest debt with savings
from a low interest bearing account.
Own a home? A refinance may be beneficial.
Be tax savvy. In this down market, you may be
generating a taxable loss. Make sure you claim this on your income