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My worst credit mistake
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The sting of credit cards
It was my first year of college and I had it all -- my own room, freedom,
and the experience to travel. It didn't take long before the big credit
card companies set up a booth in the lobby of our cafeteria and convinced
everyone that all you had to do was sign up to get the free T-shirts
displayed on the tables. I didn't think anything of it at first. I
mean what harm could it do, right? Wrong.
Before I knew it, the T-shirt was buried beneath
the many clothes that I had bought with what my friends and I had
convinced ourselves to be "free" money. It wasn't long before
the collectors were calling, and without the luxury of caller ID we
learned that it was best to screen each other's calls.
That was college in 1995. A year later they had stopped
the creditors from publicizing on our college campus. But for the
young, impressionable minds that were victimized because we were
slaves to fashion, we'd already paid the price -- with our credit.
Fashion Slave
Co-signed loan for beau's
brother
My biggest mistake was to co-sign a student loan for my ex-boyfriend's
younger brother. I have a problem saying no to people that I feel
have been dealt a bad hand in life. I felt sorry for him because
his family couldn't and wouldn't help him, and I knew he really
wanted to go to school. I thought it was a good thing and that he
was on the right path with the right mindset. I wanted to believe
in him.
It turns out that he made me sign for two loans, not
one like he told me. He had me sign the second loan by saying that
the school lost the original papers and he had to resubmit the paperwork.
Being the naive and trusting fool that I am, I believed him. Turns
out he dropped out of school shortly after starting, and didn't
give the school any notice so they could refund part of the money.
He owed the creditor the full loan amount of almost $9,000. He did
not make any payments for almost four years after dropping out --
which, after fees, increased the amount owed to over $13,000.
Now, years later, and after numerous phone calls,
false promises, pleas and threats, he has finally made a deal with
them to make three monthly payments for a reduced amount agreed
upon. He could not come up with the second month's payment so I
had to borrow from my credit card in order to help out, in the hopes
that I can salvage what's left of my nonexistent credit after this
is done with. He claims he will pay me back, but I won't hold my
breath.
Amina A.
My mom and a time share
My 50-something, widowed mom got lured into buying a time share
with a friend. They thought the time share was an investment; but
by the time they found out that it was a deal coming straight from
Hades, it was too late for them to back out. Her "friend"
stopped paying, and now mom is stuck paying the fees herself. When
she's late with her payment, the time share people threaten her.
They've actually called and asked me for her work number. My mom
is feeling depressed and low -- even though she hasn't ever used
or taken advantage of the sorry deal. She has barely enough money
to buy food, pay her mortgage, and other bills.
I know it was a big mistake for her to get this time share,
and I have been helping her as much as I am able financially. But
I just wish that these time share demonic collectors would stop treating
my mom like dirt.
Irritated Child
Car purchase without research
In summer of 1996, I went to a Mazda dealership. I bought the
equivalent of a Ford Escort for $17,000 at 19 percent. The payments
were $419 per month. The insurance was as rude as the payment. The
moral is: First shop for insurance, and then look at the car. Decide
if the vehicle is really worth it and if you can live with a used
or less expensive ride. Ask yourself, "Did I work as hard spending
this money as I did earning it?"
Regretful buyer
In the beginning...
The worst credit mistake I ever made was getting a credit card
to begin with. The best credit move I've ever made was closing my
two credit card accounts a year and a half ago (totaling $12,000).
I now have my balance down to about $4,500.
Derek B.
Editor's note: Because credit
card companies will raise your rate if you cancel a card, it is
best to keep the accounts open until you pay them off.
Trashy sofa trashes credit
I bought a sofa and love seat for the first time in 12 years.
My husband and I have good credit and qualified for the six-months-same-as-cash
deal. After three months we ran into trouble with the quality of
the furniture. You could feel the springs on the seats when you
sat down. A friend of my husband convinced us that we did not have
to pay if we put the item into dispute. So we disputed.
After many attempts to talk to the general manager
of the warehouse, the company decided they were not responsible
for refunding our money. Again my husband's friend convinced us
that we did not have to pay for it and they could not touch our
credit.
Many months and letters went back and forth with us
saying, "What is wrong with you? We are still not satisfied."
The company maintained that they were not responsible. Finally I
looked into all the legal stuff myself and found the finance company
was also responsible to us, so I changed my tone and decided to
cry to them for help.
Finally, we got new stuffing and cushions, however
our credit was very damaged. I kept talking until someone at the
finance company felt so bad for me that they sent a special report
to the credit companies exonerating me of any late charges.
We recently paid off our bill.
My big mistake was not doing the legwork myself. I
was darn lucky they felt bad for me and pulled out the ace to help
me. If I had to do it again, I would pay the minimum and fight it
just the same, except without all the delinquencies.
Barbara F.
Compiled by Amy C. Fleitas
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