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Don't be a Valentine's Day loser

Valentine's Day may be the only holiday that has a prerequisite: Must have date.

Yeah, right! Listen up you single, footloose and fancy-free types! Instead of whining about what you don't have, get over it and be selfish. Make Valentine's Day your own holiday. Think of the savings -- you'll be buying one glass of wine instead of two, you get to eat the whole pound of pricey chocolates yourself, and you won't be suckered into those expensive restaurant combo meals.

Here are 10 ways to live it up stag on Valentine's Day:

1. Hear sweet nothings. Do you long to hear feel-good endearments? Fear not. Pick up a Dancin' Shoutin James Brown -- it's just the thing at $24.99. (When you've reached your limit on all that funk, simply yank out the batteries.)

2. Scoop it up. Drown your sorrows in a pint of Ben and Jerry's ice cream, frozen yogurt or sorbet. Better yet, you don't even have to get up off the couch to buy it. Just go online. Choose any six flavors and they will be shipped overnight for $64.95 with the Ice Cream By Mail service. If you can't decide from the 30-plus flavors, there's the Scooper's Choice six-pack of the current top flavors also for $64.95.

3. Do your laundry. Find one of those full-service bar and coin laundry places that serves food. Not only will you get the mundane task of washing your clothes out of the way, but you can eat, drink and be merry. You've got lots of time to get to know people. And what better place to pick up or be hit on?

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4. Splurge on yourself. Buy something that you've been eyeing for a while but never mustered the gumption to get. That money would be gone anyway if you had a valentine to buy for, so why not spend it on yourself? Indulge in that more expensive wine, or get a high-priced ticket to a basketball or ice hockey game.

5. Make it a chick flick night. Rent "When Harry Met Sally" or "Bridget Jones's Diary" and live vicariously through the cast of characters and their lives rife with romantic innuendo. You can feel all the love without the commitment.

6. Love the one you're with. If you have a dog, cat or a fine-feathered friend, celebrate Valentine's Day with your pet. They like gifts, too. How about a $6.99 catnip tea cat toy or a Wiggly Giggly bone for $10.95?

7. Figure your odds. Can't get that certain someone out of your head? Can't afford a psychic or a tarot card reading? Use the free love calculator to see what your chances are of getting together.

8. Send 'em a virtual cocktail. We guarantee: It's less filling. Your distant love won't be able to taste it, but then there's no hangover and no driving drunk. And it's free. Ha! You thought happy hour was a good deal.

9. A pat on the back. Get a massage to release the tension of the daily grind. Or pamper your skin with a facial. 

10. Volunteer. Spread the happiness to others by pitching in with a volunteer group geared to your interests. Or if you're already there, plan a special event for Valentine's Day. Giving your time to others is free and very rewarding.

Whether you're single or not, plan to celebrate. You may think of Cupid as a very creative advertising executive who commercializes on people's feelings but would you rather frown on the holiday or have fun in your own way?

-- Updated: Jan. 28, 2003

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