Resolutions schmezolutions | We're already a few days
into 2007. Did you make resolutions at the start of the year? What
about the ones for 2006? What was your success rate?
On New Year's Eve, I found the resolutions that I'd made for 2006
-- five pages worth, roughly 30 altogether -- and laughed out loud at how absurdly
ambitious I was the year before. My success rate was abysmal, an average of 42
percent for accomplishing financial, organizational and self-improvement goals.
I succeeded at things that required action by a particular
date. For instance, I managed to do my taxes by mid-April last year, like most
Americans. For personal goals, I fared better, at 85 percent.
But these were things I really wanted to do anyway, such as reading the Bible,
doing yoga twice a week, eating healthier, taking daily 35-minute walks, learning
French, etc. Let's not talk about the stuff on my other lists.
Reader feedback I had asked the readers of
Bankrate newsletters
a simple question: "Do you keep New Year's resolutions? Share those you didn't,
but plan to renew." Several people responded. Most discussed
goals about losing weight and eating better. These are worthy goals, very much
linked to personal finances. How? If you take care of yourself by eating nutritious
food and shunning empty calories, you can avert illness. And illness can be costly,
even if you have insurance. So those of you folks who made resolutions to lose
weight and eat healthier -- more power to you.
A couple of readers offered a different approach.
Resolution, a weighty word that has an almost legally
binding ring to it, reeks of self-denial. But you can turn your
resolutions to your advantage. For instance, JoAnn Reich writes:
"A few years ago I decided to quit making resolutions
about quitting habits. I decided to make resolutions of things to
ADD to my life. Last year I decided to drink more green tea ...
one of the first resolutions I ever kept.
"This year I am resolving to eat a salad of dark
green veggies every day. Life is more fun when you give yourself
MORE rather than take stuff away. I feel like I am being more
positive."
My friend and colleague Ellen Cannon, who writes Bankrate's new Plastic
Rap blog, says she doesn't make resolutions, but rather goals. Some have an
element of fun to them. She plans to play more golf this year, for instance. She
also plans to increase her 401(k) contributions by a certain percentage.
Goals are more attainable than resolutions, she says. Be
easy on yourself In a Parade article
about New Year's resolutions that ran last weekend, Ellen DeGeneres says, "Most
people think of their New Year's resolutions as a long, nasty list of present
faults and future failures. But it doesn't have to be that way."
She suggests keeping the list short -- "three to
five resolutions is plenty" -- plus, it saves paper, she adds. Her
resolutions really don't require her to take any further action
immediately. "Keep on not smoking" and "Hold off on exercise" until
midyear, are two examples.
My
friend and tax writer Kay Bell, in her Don't
Mess with Taxes blog, mentions that she doesn't make resolutions because she
usually breaks them. "But I am resolving this year to get my taxes filed before
April 16," she writes. Bankrate, I should mention, launched
the 2007
Tax Guide yesterday, to which Kay Bell contributes enormously. Tune in to
her daily
tax tips; they will help you get through the arduous task of prepping your
taxes. So this year I resolve not to make any resolutions.
Rather, I will make goals that I am confident I can meet. For instance, I'll continue
to contribute to my 401(k), drink green tea, do yoga twice a week,
walk daily, play more golf, eat healthy foods, learn French and read excellent
books voraciously. Oh, and I plan to get my taxes done well before the mid-April
deadline. Longtime financial journalist Barbara Mlotek Whelehan
earned a certificate of specialization in financial planning. If you have a comment
or suggestion about this column, write to Boomer
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